Light in the Bedroom – FIRE
Light in the bedroom is as important as the other elements. AIR, EARTH, WATER.
We associate light with the element of FIRE. But, for most of us, FIRE does not induce sleep. Nor does light.
Some people need semi-darkness, while others need no ray of light in the bedroom. Of course, during sleep.
A passionate state of matter versus peaceful light
The element of FIRE refers to bursts of energy, intense activity. Well, a crazed state of matter. Or passionate.
When we need fire, we borrow some from the nearest celestial source we have. Our sun. The sun is matter at its most incandescent and restless. As also is the core of our planet.
Although FIRE points to fervent activity, we cannot rule out a starting point. Some kind of initial spark which must have kindled it. Neither can we rule out the idea of combustion turning into subdued mellowness. Sometime later. Smoldering that will become extinguished.
Well, everything in the universe is born, grows, and eventually turns into something else. The universe itself does so.
We humans, too, are born as sparks. Or … out of a spark. Then grow and live our more or less tumultuous lives. To mellow down and eventually turn into dust. That spark, though, stays with us throughout our earthly experience. Some say it continues to exist after our demise.
So, beyond the FIRE of life, let us imagine a peaceful eternal light. It awaits us. The source where the sparks come from.
Light in the bedroom
Oh, sweet bedroom. That space in our home where we rest. Sleep and dream.
There, we should create an atmosphere similar to the peaceful light of the universe rather than the tumultuous solar activity. So, FIRE cannot be the dominant element. In fact, it must be the least present of the four basic elements.
Yet, your needs dictate to what extent you integrate FIRE into your bedroom decor. A long series of factors influence your choices.
The first factor is the type of sleeper you are. Also, your fears and phobias, if any. Then whether you sleep alone. And if not, the relationship between you and the other person. Also, the intimacy between the two of you and your bedroom routine. Plus, self-awareness.
Your intentions regarding the depth and duration of your sleep count as well. And many other variables.
Since I adore sunlight, large windows let it flood the rooms in my house. Including the bedroom. During sleep, though, I prefer darkness.
No flicker, no ray of light. For that, I have an entire array of window dressing. From gauzy curtains to thick velvet drapes, and opaque blinds.
Light sleepers
You take long to fall asleep? Wake at the faintest sound? Then you are a light sleeper.
OK. If you want to sleep deeper, keep the element of FIRE at a low. It must weigh … light in the balance. As opposed to the other elements.
Remember, though. No matter what kind of sleeper you are, your relationship with the four elements prevails. How you engage with them is a crucial factor.
If, for instance, you are afraid of the dark, you must let more light in the bedroom. Improve the quality of your sleep by other means, like introducing more AIR. Or WATER.
Heavy sleepers
You sleep fast no matter the environment. Sharp noises do not wake you. Well, you are a heavy sleeper. And I bet you do not mind light in the bedroom.
If, and when, you gage your sleep too deep, increase the FIRE element, to the detriment of AIR or WATER. It will help.
Sometimes circumstances compel you to change your sleeping routine. So use more light in the bedroom.
Let’s say you have a newborn baby. Adieu, heavy sleeping. Because you need to check upon them during the night.
Adieu, heavy sleeping, too, when your new job requires getting up earlier. Until you get used to it, you need a period to adjust.
Or when you have a plane to catch the following morning. You might keep on the light in the bedroom till dawn.
LOVE in the bedroom
LOVE is everywhere. In each of us, too. And it stays with us wherever we go and whatever we do.
It also lodges in your bedroom. First, because you love yourself. Then you surround yourself with objects you love. Or remind you of your loved ones.
No matter if you are alone or with a partner, love dwells with you. And even though your love or sex life is less than perfect or unhappy, a spark of love stays there.
Well, if you want that spark to flare into a fire, then you need to bring more FIRE into your bedroom. FIRE will not only rekindle or give birth to feelings of love and improve your sex life, but it will also summon love into your life if you are single.
If, deep down into your heart, you wish for a partner, FIRE will bring them to you. I mean FIRE both in your heart and in your bedroom. Therefore, bring a few fiery accents into the decor.
Natural light in the bedroom
Do not shy away from large windows. Because you need natural light in the bedroom too.
So let twilight or starry night light in the bedroom. They create a hypnotic effect. Then the same windows, glass walls, or skylights will readjust you to daylight. Going through raw dawn to the explosion of natural light you need upon waking up.
Then think how simple it is to change the bedroom atmosphere at any moment, according to your needs. Just with drapes or shades. A combination of them made of different fabrics will ensure a wider range of light filters. By magic, your bedroom turns bright or semi-obscure. Or dark.
Artificial light in the bedroom
Artificial light is a welcomed solution when you introduce FIRE into your bedroom. More than that, it is a necessary facility. For instance, when you need light overnight.
Also, a means to create any lighting you want, irrespective of the weather or the time of day or night. Then think. At the touch of a button.
We are lucky to benefit from this modern convenience. From its source of decorations, too. Limitless.
The incandescent light bulb has, for many years now, filled our homes with warmth and soft yellowish light reminding of fire. Its era is getting to an end, though. It is being replaced by more efficient compact fluorescent bulbs, fluorescent lamps, and light-emitting diode lamps (LED).
These devices come in a variety of forms and sizes. Some ceiling or wall light fixtures and lamps are objects of art in themselves. Their beauty lends a lovely feel to any room. The more needed in the place allotted to sleep and love.
Remember. I do not mean shared love with a partner, but love in itself. Love for yourself, love for people, and for life.
Modern design makes use of lighting systems to turn a bedroom into an unworldly space. Propitious for relaxation, healthy sleep, dreams, and love. A combination of devices like light fixtures, fluorescent tubes, diode lamps, or light projectors can recreate a starry night sky. Imagine it above you. Before or while sleeping.
Top designers merge natural light into artificial lighting to create unique effects. Of course, a personalized atmosphere for their clients. An ambience that indulges. Inspires peace and induces sleep. How not feel unique in this space? Like a pampered queen. Or a prince.
Well, yes. I will not exclude men from my posts, although I primarily address to Next Woman.
Colors and light in the bedroom
Colors are light. Some, though, to a greater extent evoke FIRE. The incandescent activity of the sun.
They stimulate energy, increase impetus, and set your blood in motion. For more intense activity. Yellow and red or any shades and tones containing these hues in higher amounts are felt as such. As well as bright light, be it white, yellow, or blue.
Studies of fire and flames have revealed that matter in its hottest state is bright white, yellow, or blue. Then, as it gets colder, orange and red.
In fact, it is not a matter of color. If not of intensity and brightness.
If we think better, fire results from combustion. A reaction between a fuel and an oxidant. These elements, therefore, influence the color of the flame. So all colors, when bright or glossy, have an activating impact on you.
This impact, though, depends on a series of variables. Your personality, for instance. Or your color taste. If not, your personal experience with colors. Also gender, phobias, etc.
If you need or want to spark up your bedroom, use more red or yellow pigments in the paints on your walls. Reds and reddish browns for drapes and rugs. Or tones of violet, dark peach, or various shades of orange.
Remember. Tones are combinations of a color with any shade of gray (black and white in the desired proportion). Whereas you get shades by adding black to a color.
Choose flooring and furniture of yellowish or reddish brown wood essences. Glossy finishes, too.
Use decorative objects. The easiest way to enliven the atmosphere with a little FIRE. Especially when you do not want a permanent effect.
Change bedspreads and cushions to spark your mood. In yellow, orange, red, or any bright, vibrant color. Choose silky textures. Night lamps, candles, or red roses are other suggestions.
You are the light in the bedroom
Next Woman, you are the prime source of light in your bedroom. Ardent and active during the day, you settle down to glowing embers at nightfall. Well, ready to give yourself in to the peaceful embrace of universal LOVE.
Featured photo by Viviana Ioan, the author
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